I want to talk very briefly about manifestation, because it is actually an essential element of enjoying a great relationship or a very good sex life.
We tend to think that everything that we do is governed by our conscious thinking, but nothing could be further from the truth – to say this massively underestimates or indeed completely ignores the incredible power of the subconscious mind.
The subconscious mind, or the unconscious as it is sometimes known, is a part of our minds which is beyond conscious awareness, but which is responsible for the vast majority of our thinking and feeling, reasoning, intuition, creativity and much more besides – about 95% of the activity the mind takes place in the unconscious, perhaps much more.
And the unconscious is a powerful computer, much more powerful than anything is as yet been invented by computer scientists or physicists.
It’s an utterly astounding and is somewhat unbelievable force in our lives which is vastly underused for our benefit.
You see, the unconscious or subconscious mind can create whatever you want, or rather, it can cocreated in keeping with the universe is expectations that we are a channel for the manifestation of our own reality.
Now you may wonder at this point what on earth I’m talking about, and that’s not too surprising. The thing in our lives proposes for the enormity of what we are capable of should we actually explore the area of manifestation the crow creation of reality in keeping with universal force.
And it is for that reason that so many people scorn and mock the idea of manifestation. Another unfortunate reason why they do this is because things like The Secret by Rhonda Byrne have led people to believe that creating whatever they want, getting what they want, essentially an acquisitive process of greedy expectation and materialism, is very easy and simple.
Because the truth is that anything that actually enhances the quality of your life does require significant effort, at least to start with, when you don’t really know what you’re playing with or how the forces of nature can work on your behalf.
So let me take you right back to the beginning, and explain to what’s necessary at each step of the process for manifestation – that might help you to understand why you, perhaps, are not getting the success rate that you would like by using process manifestation.
I should also add at this point, that another term used to describe the process of manifestation by mental processing is The Law of Attraction. Or, to be more accurate, The Law of Attraction is in fact the process which the universe uses to manifest reality when an individual like your eyes sets out to achieve something specific for ourselves.
So criteria number one is that this process will only work for something that you want for yourself. You can’t manifest something using the Law of Attraction for somebody else.
How Manifestation Works
So having decided what it is that you want, and knowing that it is only possible for you to manifest something for yourself, the next step in the process is for you to find a way of estimating your desires up in an image that can be visualized easily and simply.
You see, visualization is the process by which the mind is able to connect with the universal consciousness, also known as great mystery, or cosmic consciousness, or the collective unconscious. (I sometimes think that our need to explain and justify and rationalize is one of the reasons why we have so many terms and definitions in our lives.
But make no mistake about it, whatever you call the law of attraction, or the process of manifestation, or the great mystery that lies behind it, you as a human being have a divine right, and natural innate ability, to connect with this energetic source of all and produce whatever it is that you want in your life.)
Now generally people speak of energy around visualization as being emotional energy, and often they talk of the energetic pleasure and delight and joy that you feel as you visualize your image.
That’s absolutely true, but I might add that visualization, even when it supported by intense energetic processes, is not sufficient to produce or manifest what it is you want in the world.
A lot of people think that if they sit on their asses for hours a day, visualizing whatever it is that they want in their lives, they going to be successful in achieving it, that it will somehow mysteriously appear in their lives.
If you’re in this camp, think again!
The truth of the matter is that visualizing for five or 10 minutes a day is perfectly sufficient provided you’re in the right frame of mind, and you are using the right energetic processes.
No doubt at this stage are wondering what the right energetic processes might be! Well, to put it simply, we’ve already covered the fact that you have to have a clear idea of what it is you want, that you have to energize your imagination as you picture it arriving in your life. The other critical factors are belief and expectancy.
Belief and expectancy
People often ask me what I mean by belief and expectancy, and I think it’s best summed up by saying that would have you believe you can achieve, you will achieve in other words, the limitations on your thinking what put limitations on your manifestation, or what the universe is willing to give to you.
You absolutely have to believe that whatever it is that you’re picturing, whatever it is that you actually have to get in your life, is something that you can physically achieve. No matter that the universe is capacity to manifest reality is unlimited – what limits your expectations is what limits what appears in your life.
Indeed, many people who set out with massive objectives quickly realize that the soon as they start imaging, they don’t in any way shape or form believe that what it is there imaging is actually possible for them to have in their lives in reality.
The most common reason for this is poor self worth, or a poor self-image, or a lack of confidence… Would have you want call it, is certainly the manifestation of a whole series of limiting beliefs that have been with you since childhood.
Those limiting beliefs are the ones that govern every aspect of your existence on this planet – what you achieve, what you feel, what you think, the quality of your relationships, the quality of your sexual relationships, the quality of your experience of the world, the jaw you feel… Absolutely every single thing that you experience in any way, shape or form is governed by the beliefs that you hold about yourself.
And you’ll see, a background of that intensity, of that rigidity, of that absolute-ness, if I may put it that way means that you cannot possibly manifest reality in the way that you want unless you have gone out of your way to eliminate negative and limiting beliefs.
You simply can’t summon up the energetic framework of consistent and absolute belief if you are running belief system which is directly contrary to whatever it is that you’re trying to achieve.
You might want to look on the Internet for advice and information about how you can overcome limiting beliefs, and then having done that, you can finally set to work imagining a different reality in your life with a degree of confidence of success.